I was watching Huntsman(Winter’s War) with my family and the message hits home.
I was about to relate myself to Ice Queen about being betrayed and a love lost…. And how I felt that is what I would feel after having lost a love you once had.
But, then the movie reminded me that sometimes our “perception” or the way we look at things or the way things seems to us may not be real. But, just a mere projection. And it is not the truth.
And, then just like that we discount all the love we had for one another and believing a “lie” of “what is”.
In a relationship, it can be a challenge, a rocking of the boat, a temporary setback. We failed to communicate what happened and chose to ignore and become silent or if we do communicate, we attack one another, shooting arrows against each other’s grievances.
Some people can be given second chances.. Others not. And we would look forlornly to a love that we lost just because we failed to communicate with love and kindness.
And to all those lovers out there who may be undergoing something, I may have failed on mine.. You might be giving yourselves a chance.
By choosing love instead of attack. Choose kindness even if your love one attacks you.
Also, not all the time your love one will react the way you want him or her to and with that comes a mile long understanding and patience.
Just remember, that Love can thaw a frozen heart and TRUE LOVE indeed conquers all.
Find that someone who would not walk away from the simple rocking of the boat…. Find someone who chooses to stick with you. Someone who will truly accept you on your bad days as well as your good.
And if you do… Never let them go… Welcome that golden arrow. 💕❤️💐🍀😍❤️💕